Dont be Taken Advantage of, Learn the Secrets of Conversational Hypnosis
June 24th, 2007Have you ever heard of Conversational Hypnosis? It’s likely you haven’t. The reason is that the people who practice this type of hypnosis are not advertising for clients who are willing be hypnotized to stop smoking or lose weight, or become confident, or anything else you can learn to do with hypnosis. In fact, you might get a little angry when you find out what kind of people have been using conversational hypnosis on you.
Many sales people are very familiar with conversational hypnosis, but it is also consciously, and sometimes unconsciously, used by those who seem to always get what they want. The people who are successful at conversational hypnosis are the people you believe in. For some reason you just trust them, and whatever they say seems to be the right thing. For some people conversational hypnosis comes naturally (which is why I said they could be using it unconsciously), for others, it takes practice.
Unlike regular hypnosis, where one person is put into a trance while the other person speaks softly and/or asks questions, Conversational Hypnosis occurs when two people are just talking to each other, or so it seems.
One person seems to be listening and agreeing, while the other is doing most of the talking.
Cleverly, the main person talking is doing so in a way that influences the listener to follow their lead. They use their tone of voice along with what they say to influence another person’s decision. They know when you’re going to say ‘yes’ or ‘no.’ If they feel a ‘no’ coming on, they can change your mind before you even know what you were going to say. Not only that, but they can even make you forget that you originally had objections, until the only thing left for you to do is buy, or agree that they’re right and then wonder what happened later.
If you talk with your hands, or use basic body language, you can be persuaded very easily by a conversational hypnotist because they are very good at reading this language; it’s a lot easier to read than just trying to determine what a person is saying.
Now that you know what conversational hypnosis is, do you think you have ever been hypnotized? Well, have you ever had what’s called buyers remorse - where you went to buy one thing, and somehow bought something much more expensive than you ever thought you would, and just didn’t know what made you make that expensive purchase. Did you find yourself driving home trying to figure out how to tell your significant other that this was a good purchase, even though you now don’t believe it yourself? Then, you were probably the victim of Conversational Hypnosis.
It’s really not a very good feeling when that happens. But, if you know the secrets, you can be in control at all times. You can either stick with your original answer, OR, make people do what you want for a change!
Find out more about the stages of Conversational Hypnosis including: - How To Absorb a Person’s Attention and influence them to follow your lead - How To Bypass The Conscious Mind and get just about anyone to say ‘Yes’ - Your Ability to Access Unconscious Responses and increase your negotiation abilities - Amplify & Direct The Unconscious Responses
Evelyn Grazini is the Author of Directed Dreaming. Her specialty is Self-Help information including Dreaming, Hypnosis and Stress Relief. Find out more about Conversational Hypnosis and get free Lucid Dreaming/Hypnosis Reports. http://www.reawakener.com/Conversational_Hypnosis.html
- Evelyn Grazini